Hey SP ~~~ Yours was a FAIR exchange. Do NOT beat yourself up for any emotion you displayed or reaction or even what you said. Look here, the legal side s*cks and and this is one area where the WAS is completely responsible if they are the one who filed first - which Mrs. SP did.
So, she is completely responsible for introducing this fresh hell into the M.
You have no obligation to help her feel better about the sh!t that is now hitting the fan. It is the REALITY of a move SHE made. Do not protect her from it and it sounds like you get that.
Coach played hardball with me legally ~~~ it INFURIATED me, and scared me half to death. Did I think about it ahead of time ~~~ yes, sir. But reality bites.
I think you handled yourself WELL.
Can't wait to see how she processes this.
Cheers ~~~
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08