I'm only about two weeks into my separation, and there is no affair that I know of, just an exhausted, worn-down husband with absolutely no patience for his needy, pregnant wife...
You can get hope from the fact that he is willing to go to MC, but the most you can do is do things for YOU! That is the thing that is helping me the most through this...
My anxiety level is lower than it's been in years, I rarely cry, I'm generally enjoying myself and my friends and my daughter and my life...
Just remember there's nothing you can do to change him, you can only change you!!
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011
