I could see keeping a very special call for a while but why on earth would she keep a VM from you(not that you aren't special )?? This lady's lid has flipped and she needs some help real bad. Watch out for you and yours if it gets crazy you can always borrow my ruby slippers and come out here!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
I could see keeping a very special call for a while but why on earth would she keep a VM from you(not that you aren't special )?? This lady's lid has flipped and she needs some help real bad. Watch out for you and yours if it gets crazy you can always borrow my ruby slippers and come out here! kat
Thanks Kat, if me being special mean crazy keeps a VM for almost 2 years, then I'd prefer not to be, thank you. I also appreciate the offer of the ruby slippers, however I'm afraid of what might be on them when you got them back so I will respectfully decline your most gracious offer.
I'm just really getting tired of her screwin' with me. I mean...HELL-O, If you didn't want to deal with a wife then you probably shouldn't have been doing a married man.
Shes just getting on my nerves and I thought that blocking the phone would work, so now I have to not respond, though it would do my heart good to give her some back of what she dishes out to me.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I think it is time for a new number. Harassment is harassment just maybe the mode changes. I guess if you don't want to go the new number route, maybe a call to the local police department may be in order. How on earth do wayward spouses find these people, in the yellow pages under "Nuts for you"??
Hang in there. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Just checking on you. Hope you had a nice weekend. How was Father's Day?
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
me thinks you need a little legal protection from this woman..
jhave you talked to the police to inquire if there is a way to put a trace on that phone she calls from so you can have a legit record of her harrassment??...long ago i had some teenagers who happened to just randomly pick my number from the phone book...they called and called and called..I had a tracer put on my phone..they called..I recognized the voice...clicked the receiver one time..the trace started..and when they tried to hang up the tracer would not allow the phone line to disconnect.. How cool is that?? I then berated them..and listened to them flip out as the local police pulled up to their door .
You need an order of protection from her...she's worse than Batchitt crazy..she's psyco...she's mentally ill..
me thinks you need a little legal protection from this woman..
jhave you talked to the police to inquire if there is a way to put a trace on that phone she calls from so you can have a legit record of her harrassment??...long ago i had some teenagers who happened to just randomly pick my number from the phone book...they called and called and called..I had a tracer put on my phone..they called..I recognized the voice...clicked the receiver one time..the trace started..and when they tried to hang up the tracer would not allow the phone line to disconnect.. How cool is that?? I then berated them..and listened to them flip out as the local police pulled up to their door .
You need an order of protection from her...she's worse than Batchitt crazy..she's psyco...she's mentally ill..
now THAT'S really cool.
Puppy likes this.
I've also been screaming for a TSO, at a minimum, but Shug ain't listenin.' Time to lock up her pet bunnies, methinks.
I understand this. Ok, here are some thoughts from the "other side". Your H made this OW feel like she was special, probably said things to her that made her feel like she was going to be with him forever, she was "broken" when she met your H, and now is "broken" even more if that is possible. Your H probably feels guilt about this, especially since she had his child. Even though your H now realizes that relationship was bad, he still feels guilt and has feelings about her.
When having an affair, the affair partners very often are a little "off". For them to have a relationship with a married person in the first place, tells you that there is some lack of self esteem, lack of knowledge about love and commitment, etc.
My former OM was like your H's OW. I KNEW when I told him that we were done, that it wouldn't end quietly. We didn't have a child between us, but that didn't stop the phone calls, the hang up calls, I know he passed the house a few times, he got involved with the police a couple times, etc. You would think that would make me feel better about ending it....because he was "crazy". But, problem is, I felt the guilt about it...I knew he was emotional when I met him and it was one of the reasons I liked him......if it weren't for me, making him fall for me, convincing him that we were heading toward a real relationship, etc., he wouldn't be so upset. I was the cause of this OM's pain. And, on top of it, I missed him. It's just emotionally difficult. Not impossible, just difficult.
A restraining order may be necessary. Work as a team with your H.
yep..it was cool Puppy..the only way to disconnect the trace was for me to hang up..problem was I had plenty of time to tell those girls who were harrassing me what I thought about them while i patiently waited for the nice police officer to arrive...they just happened to be around 17 years old at the time..calling from their grandmother's house..they harrassed me for a solid month before i took action...part of the deal with having the trace put on my phone was that if I agreed to the trace and actaully traced a call..I had to prosecute....they cried, they begged, they pleaded for me to hang up...there grandmother even begged.....
)?? This lady's lid has flipped and she needs some help real bad. Watch out for you and yours if it gets crazy you can always borrow my ruby slippers and come out here!
How cool is that?? I then berated them..and listened to them flip out as the local police pulled up to their door 