Thanks dday, I understand that's the case, and I am really trying to determine best course of action.
I have been thinking about trying to come up with something ammicable that I can live with, but I also feel I need to get away from this sitch for both my emotional and financial health.
For her, emotions are not really at issue here, she's detached from me.
I fear if I try and push to hard, the lawyers will tear me up, so trying to come up with some other plan first, that doesn't have me in limbo for the next 6 months..
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."