Thanks dday, I understand that's the case, and I am really trying to determine best course of action.

I have been thinking about trying to come up with something ammicable that I can live with, but I also feel I need to get away from this sitch for both my emotional and financial health.

For her, emotions are not really at issue here, she's detached from me.

I fear if I try and push to hard, the lawyers will tear me up, so trying to come up with some other plan first, that doesn't have me in limbo for the next 6 months..


M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."