Thx for the kudos! Being active really is helping my PMA. So, a 14'er... haven't done any except Pikes Peak so yes, that would be awesome. Fly fishing.. yes, that would be cool too. Great ideas - thanks!
I'm trying to get the tube in my stupid bike tire fixed... little things my H used to do that I took for granted. But I'll figure it out (I got the tread off and the tube's ready except I can't find the little Presta valve... but I'm working on it!). Hoping to go for a bike ride this weekend to clear my head. Being outdoors is really helping me feel better. Which in turn is helping me with the patience you mentioned...
So, are you two taking turns being in the house with the kids now? You're there during the week, and she stays there for the weekend? Not sure I'm following... But a thought about applying DB techniques during your exchanges... try not to be right by her when you do the exchange. Be busy, different room, or something b/c you want to act 'as if' you're getting on with life, and not just standing around waiting for her to notice you.
It sounds like you're an active guy, Tundra, but if you aren't getting outside b/c of your emotions or work or whatever, challenge yourself to do something for yourself this week. It will really help you to gain some perspective, and find answers, patience, understanding. Hang in there, because as you said, it is one day at a time!
