Hope everyone is doing well. I've been reading up on everyone's post but haven't been posting lately, which is mainly b/c I'm crazy busy at work.
So update.... my greatgrandmother had a saying that "speak the truth whatever costeth will." and boy oh boy, I wish I didn't speak the truth this time. So last week I had told my H that I was speaking to a friend since he wanted to still come and kiss me etc. and basically continue to cake eat, so I told him he needs to stop that now. Anyway, since then, the man has been getting on my nerve. Oh my H has called begging me not to process the legal separation and to give us another chance and to trust him and that he will do right by me and please please please he's begging me to forgive him, etc. etc. Calling me several times per day, which I'm trying to ignore as much as possible, and even sent a text Mrs. H will you marry me again. And guess what, it is all pissin me off!!! I've been begging him to please leave me alone give me some time. I feel like he is totally making a mockery of our marriage. To be still living with OW and then to be talking about how much you love your wife and you want to remarry etc. Is he for real? All of a sudden? I feel like I'm at a place of total disguss with this man. I'm tired of his BS. And this is not b/c of my new friend.In fact I don't even know where that will head at this point but still I don't want my H back. Too much has happened and I have dedicated way too much of my years to this crap. So last night he called to tell me that he went to our bldg and did some work there. All in all I think he is just trying to get things back to status quo where he couldhave the option to walk back in and out as he pleases. I decided that I will not even bring up the subject of me moving on to him again, just let him fool himself into thinking that his games are working and I'm there waiting, and then he wil go back to his usual self of not giving a damn about me and I kinda welcome that right now. I am still working on getting the legal sep finalized though. It is needed.
I'm even more furious at him now after learning yesterday about an incident that occurred last year. He was suppose to go on vacation with me and instead stood me up, I had to go for work anyway so I went by myself. So while I was away my sister saw his car parked up at OW house and she was furious since she was taking care of some business for us while we were suppose to be away. My sis then went to him at OW house to give him the stuff for him to take care of and my chicken H refused to come out. OW came to the window and my sister exchanged words with her. OW then called the police and made a false report on my sis saying that she treathened her. Now the case is being investigated. My sis has been sayin all along that it had to be H who gave OW her name and H then finally yesterday H admitted that yes that he did. That bastard!! Now he's talking talking about he loves my sis and doesn't want her job to be in jeopardy. My sis is a police officer as well and she has helped H with several tickets. How could he. I am so finished with this man. That's now how you treat family. Just wrong!!!
