0 - IMO I think it's time to lay down your boundaries. Next time you both are alone I would say what you just said. I would ask what's going on? Which she will most likely say something from the WAS script "he's just a friend, Im just not happy, etc..) Then say regardless you need to know where she is at. So you can figure out what you need to do. You will quickly see where she stands. Let her know that you are NOT interested in being in an open marriage and if she does want to pursue this R w OM then she can move out. You will NOT set this type of example for your kids. People on here always say that it is bad for the spouse to move out, BUT it's worth to be disrespected if an OP is involved.
