@Coach wrote: "The ROE say you can't take out WAS. Just handle it the best you can right now."
That's right. I know that. And like I wrote, I might get plenty of revengy glee out of it -- when I write my divorce book, maybe I'll use my real name and not "Smiley's Person" as a pseud, LOL -- but it would do the girl-child and boy-child no good.
And what's good for the girl-child and the boy-child is my lighthouse these days -- it illuminates the Way I Must Roll.