I'm in the same boat as you. Best thing to do IMO is continue to GAL and maintain a PMA, let her see that without saying, the rest is unfortunately up to her. Be open to any suggestions that she has re meeting up but make sure that they are on your terms and not simply you dropping everything to do what she wants. Women want a man not a lap dog.
Try to detach - I'm not doing well on this. Physically I am, but mentally I'm still obsessing - not good