I'm happy to hear that. I think Saffie is right. This is just the beginning. During pregnancy mood swings are difficult. But post-partum depression can be very severe. It would be good to get help now, before things get worse.
Make sure that they know her psychological/personality problems existed PRE pregnancy. You don't want them using them as a reason to terminate the pregnancy....and mother's mental health can be one reason. They may not want to medicate her....in fact are unlikely to, until the baby is born.
Do you think after OM has told her that he couldn't live with her killing the baby she may now....in her warped mind.....try and convince him to accept her and the baby?
((((((HUGS)))))))
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
W has already tried to get OM to take both her and the baby on. I've read OM's SMSs to W and he tells her he has a new girlfriend - even naming her.
I can't really remember much now of what the M was like before this affair. I do know that I was happy, but the memory is very fractured now.
I keep thinking about her going there and banging OM unprotected whilst pregnant with our child - can't believe that it's my own wife that I am writing about.
GH31
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
I took W to the ultrasound yesterday to get a nuchal translucency scan done. The baby was there complete will all limbs, spinal chord, ribs, 2 kidneys, stomach etc. The screen said that W is 14 weeks pregnant which is probably a week later than what she really is.
After that we got a blood test done and travelled into the city toegther. No talking, she had a nap and I didn't want to make any conversation. When I found her sat down after getting a coffee she was looking at the print-outs of the baby that we had been given. She said briefly "I can't believe I've got a baby inside me".
I intercepted an email to OM the other day saying that she was "heartbroken, betrayed and has been crying all day" because he's been dating another woman and that she "wants him more than she wants the baby. It's not the right time etc.". Horrible, disturbing reading.
She has been very silent and to be honest I have been avoiding her. I'm not being mean, cruel, disrespectful or anything but I have made no bids for her time, connection etc. I just can't get over what depravity she has stooped to. She is in the spare room, the wedding ring is off, but I am not wishing she was in bed with me, neither am I wishing that she would put the wedding ring back on.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
