And AK, you know I love you but watch out for too much projecting...dangers go both ways.
Well, yes, I keep sort of saying "I shouldn't do this, but..." and I will stop because I am sort of figuring my own sh*t out vicariously and it isn't fair to Stuck because obviously I don't know AND that is not the work that one should be doing with the DBing.
Besides, my conclusion is that I don't know what the heck my H "could have done" that would have worked, I don't know if there was a way.
And, THAT is the point Stuck, any pursuing will not work (actions other than doing what works for you which may at some point include taking a firmer stance).
She may not get it, she, the M may not be fixable...you (we) need to really hone in on our own lives and post less about WASs...IMO.
Thanks for setting me straight 25, I don't want to be spinning others out, it is bad enough to spin so much myself.
