Another Waw

[Refuse to quit]

Well it is late I know but I just got home from court. Spent some time with family afterwards. It really helped. Well it was ugly in there. The lawyers going at it and all. It was exactly what I had feared would happen. Wife did not look at me one time. Sad part was she had to get some things next to my sister (they are pretty good friends) and she did not even look or say anything to her either. I know she was reeling though. I guess the only good that came out of it is that I get to spend more time with the kids. The other positive I see is that we have 60 days until we have to go back. I know 2 months is not that long. But that is double the time we had between this appearance and the first time we went for custody mediation. I saw some progress in the first month. Little things but progress. Her calls increased from none to a few, and she even winked at me a couple of times. At one point I had told her where I would be and she called to tell me she was thinking of comming. I was shocked. Oh one more positive from today, (at least I think it is) they ordered her to go to counseling. I feel like that has to be good. Anything that might help her look within. We will see. I know it was ugly and I walked out of there thinking how in the world could this possible work out? But after I thought about it for a while, I thought "what did you expect to happen?" I wish I had a better idea of what was and wasn't working. It seems like when I get her little gifts here and there she really brightens up. But part of me says that is just me pursueing. Love the insight guys/gals. Please keep it up
RTQ