Originally Posted By: mnt_dreams
I feel for your boys as they struggle with the living arrangements. Good answer about the cars, and they shouldn't feel like they have sneak toys back.

If they don't have a photo of you at your W's place, get a picture or take one now if you with the boys that you can frame and they can put in their other room. It helps at bedtime to have a nice memory & smiling face to ease the sadness. Actually, the reverse is true too.. a photo of them with their mom at your place would be helpful as well.


Thanks mnt_dreams

I haven't taken any pictures down since she left so all our wedding pictures are still up. I actually put a couple more pics of the 4 of us laughing and enjoying ourselves up as well

I don't think there is a picture of us at her place though. I did put a laminated one in his lunch box of us so he always has that with him


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13