Made vacation plans with the kids today. Going to NYC for a few days. Didn't invite the wife but gave her the opportunity to invite herself. She didn't budge. I don't think she really cares if we go or not. But I think that I gotta keep doing these types of things without her. I am now doing things that she used to take care of, planning vacations and trips. I am also doing things around the house that used to be her areas of expertise. Seems as if she has lost all interest in family issues. Last week I ordered new windo treatments. She doesn't know yet. I had no idea what the heck I was doing. I called a shop and they sent a lady over to help me. They should be installed next week. My wife used to love doing that kind of stuff. Now she doesn't care about anything but herself and then the kids second. But I hope that as she sees me needing her less and less that she will start to think. I can't believe that I ordered window treatments. I really can't believe that I even used the words window treatments.


Me-47
WAW-42
D-16
S-14
M-22 yrs
T-19 yrs
ILYBNILWY-3 years ago.
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