You know, Irish, I don't know what's worse -- seeing how rampant that infidelity is taking place all around us ~or~ how many bystanders and otherwise normal people will not only excuse it but even celebrate it.

I could easily let myself get pretty darn dispirited and depressed were I to stop and think about how so many of my neighbors, friends, mutual acquaintances and former family members are willing to excuse my xW for cheating on me.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.