SP,
Read your post.

Don't know what I could say or offer except I admire the way you keep yourself so level and so damned decent and caring in the face of such incoming... crazy

And re: your penultimate paragraph.... proud to know ya.

You kids have one helluva father...

And amidst the all the s**t, you always crack me up. laugh

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac