One never knows what doing or not doing a certain thing will bring upon an effect for others? I did nothing in my situation--basically got me D--now it could have worked out that way anyway..one never knows
Can you discuss this with IC to get ideas
brainstorm possible outcomes 1) OW breaks it off 2) OW leaves H 3) OW and H break it off and in secret start agan 4) H gets pissed at you...moves 5) OWH and H have it out there are probably more
have you gone over to infielity maybe there are some folks there who have tried this approach who can advise you I have read about 1 or 2 people here who have done things to break up A and were susessful at R M both people did strange ways not honest ways like one was tapping into the email with some fake IDs as OW was overseas and saying things to break it off where H did not get responses the other was W son told OW to back off as he was older and troubled and OW got scared both people said it worked I have read other posts where Both spouses knew and it did not matter b/c 2 lovers were together it will be interesting toi see what happens Pray on it think it though ask for help peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow