GETTING UN'STUCK'

[25yearsmlc]

aak,

So do you think she may be in a confused state right now?

Who knows? You are asking someone who has never met your w, to read your words in order to read your wife's mind...anything seem odd about that? .... Stop this!

I do get that vibe from her and I think that she is "trying" but not wanting to re-commit to anything because she felt that we were OVER. Throw the OM in the mix and you end up with alot of crazy emotions.

Really? Like what you just said? "vibe" and what AK thinks your w thinks, but "felt" and then "throw in"....crazy emotions?? You are making yourself crazy and emotional and this is not healthy...or helpful to you. You need to re-read Kevin's thread now and veer off of this type of behavior...really don't go down this road. And AK, you know I love you but watch out for too much projecting...dangers go both ways.

I guess it would have been easier for her if I was acting like an @$$, but I threw her off with my awesomeness!

All of this is pursuit in some form...all of it.

I don't know if it makes any sense, but she just seems...empty.

GOOD GRIEF!!

I think sandi mentioned that was how she felt after the high of the OM.

Well by all means ask another woman what SHE felt at some point in HER past to see what YOUR WIFE FEELS NOW....do you hear yourself?

j-