I know how you feel and I am so sorry...When hubby left for the 10 days it made me sick to my stomach knowing he went to see her and they were "playing house" together...24/7...Made me want to rip his head off his neck.
Then he came home and yes I snooped and found pics of the 2 of them as well as a hotel key and a book apparently for our youngest child about dealing with the trials of life etc...(The book is still in the car along with his suitcase and the pictures of him and his fat troll)
The only satisfaction I received from my snooping was he looked miserable in the pictures...His smile never met his eyes...It looked forced which made me feel better...
After that I was done snooping...Just brings on to much hurt and I damn sure don't need anymore of that!
As hard as it will be, don't contact him...Try to stay very busy then you won't think of him either...At this point I wouldn't contact my hubby even in an emergency...If you can GAL there even for a short time, it will be very helpful to you and your sanity!
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Before you go, I do think you should look him dead in the eye and say "I would appreciate it if you don't bring your girlfriend into our home. That would be incredibly disrespectful."
Of course, you won't be able to control it, but:
a) at least you'll be on record, and
b) Maybe, if the man still has SOME shred of a conscience, he will abide by your request.
I plan on having a wonderful time! I don't really like flying, but with what I've been going through, it doesn't seem to be bothering me much this time. I have gained so much strength through this.
Mmmm... I wonder if they have any "GOOD" men in Georgia. Oops... Did I just say that?...
Well, as you pass right over S.C. think about our esteemed gov who just got caught having his own little secret A!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
What's going on with these men who are in office... There's another one out here by me also. A senator from Nevada. My H works in gvt also. That's that ole "How To Cheat On Your Wife If Your In Politics" manual.
By the way, D and I are taking a road trip to Hilton Head or Myrtle Beach. She is thinking Hilton Head. Are you familiar with either? If so, could you give me your opinion? Thanks
The men who are in office? I think type A personalities and entitlement are in play here. And of course, power is sexy.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
I plan on having a wonderful time! I don't really like flying, but with what I've been going through, it doesn't seem to be bothering me much this time. I have gained so much strength through this.
Mmmm... I wonder if they have any "GOOD" men in Georgia. Oops... Did I just say that?...
