In the dark recesses of my mind I recall some lengthy halfway driving you and Kim did early on to swap Caleigh. I can't remember the details, but do you think that has something to do with it?
yep..we both drive about 30 minutes to do the swap..and I think that has nothing to do with it.
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Another woman mothering her only child is something that's probably upsetting her, too.
I could really care less if Kim gets upset..I'm not DB'in her..we are divorced..her being upset..ain't my problem..if women who get divorced think that men they divorce will remain celibate then maybe those women should join the rest of us in the real world..cause it ain't happening.
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Because of Caleigh's tender years, your daughter will develop a significant nurturing relationship with someone other than her biological mom based on your romantic relationships. Kim is one scared mommy. It's a scenario you may dealing with at some point, too.
I don't really see that..if Caleigh and Kim have not bonded in 3 years then there will never be a bond..and I hope how soon that scenario plays out for me..I hope how soon Kim finds someone else to screw with..
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Ask in a reasonable way fashion validating her fears and reassuring her?
that's been done to an extent..she's been told Caleigh will call her everyday...she's been told that her picture will sit by Caleigh's bed...
Caleigh's not gonna think of her while she is at the beach...shes' gonna be having too much fun..
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Offer Kim more time with Caleigh?
Kim gets 252 days a year..she has enough time with Caleigh. more than enough.
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Offer to pay for a night or two in a hotel starting the day you leave. That way Kim can make the whole drive up, hang out at the beach with Caleigh for mother daughter bonding time and drive back at her leisure.
she can pay for her own night at the beach..she's got a nice big log home as an asset..she's rolled all her debt into that house loan..she's getting $727 and month child support..
I will offer to pay for a frontal lobotomy for her..
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Try thinking like Kim...
I don't do batchitt crazy very well..
How about Kim doing the right thing for once...for the hell of it..
