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[Gardener]

I approached H regarding his behavior towards S. He said he "was not aware" that he was doing anything wrong. I told him any problems b/w us should not be taken out on S. Also indicated he was not spending time with S, working all the time.

Good for you!

"I completely feel like screaming at him GROW THE F@*k UP!

And yet you didn't. Good for you #2.

I am so ticked off tonight. I seriously don't know how anyone handles this and for an extended period of time.

One little period of time at a time. Like you did tonight GFY#3

It takes everything inside of me to stay calm and not lash out.

Like exercising a muscle. You will be a little stronger and it will be a little easier every time. GFY#4

Thank God I am getting away for the weekend because I am about at my limit.

Hooray for you!!
So am I!!
(W anniversary weekend; I'm gettin' outta Dodge and hiding out in the Adirondacks