When you say that the more you are together, the more the old reactions come up, R they negative reactions? I wonder if you could stop that, can you try to do a 180 and change it?
We text message daily, for a few hours at a time. We are in different time zones, 4 hours apart. So he ends up staying up till midnight or 1 am texting with me. We actually talked on the phone a week or so ago, it went well, I think that it felt good to talk to him.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...