He's baiting you...again. And he will keep doing it until he finally understands you aren't gonna bite.
I know it's hard. I really do. Your H sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do. But, you have to be the better person here.
Remember from DR - before you take an action or say something, ask yourself, "Is what I'm about to do going to bring me closer to my goal?" You take the bait and argue, and you are not moving toward your goal.
