I approached H regarding his behavior towards S. He said he "was not aware" that he was doing anything wrong. I told him any problems b/w us should not be taken out on S. Also indicated he was not spending time with S, working all the time. H denied this, said S is with friends and he hasn't worked that much. H then makes some comment to the effect of "oh, I'm such a horrible dad."

I completely feel like screaming at him GROW THE F@*k UP! I am so ticked off tonight. I seriously don't know how anyone handles this and for an extended period of time. H is being such an a**hole tonight. It takes everything inside of me to stay calm and not lash out. Thank God I am getting away for the weekend because I am about at my limit.


Me: 39 H: 39
S: 15
M: 18 years
Bomb: 6/3/09
H moved out: 10/15/09
H moved back:5/30/10