Thanks again for posting on my thread. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I can tell you that I don't think I could or should keep this up for years. I understand the concept of MLC being a sickness and taking time, but I also believe that if we're meant to be together once MLC is over, it will happen without me sticking around for years. I have a real problem with how to enforce boundaries and prevent cake eating while still only showing PMA to H and avoiding R and OW talk, etc. (thus the title of the thread). I agree with Trying - it's exhausting just trying to figure out what to do/not do on a daily basis. I try to detach myself and it's such a challenge. I know in a lot of ways it's good that H is still in the house but when H is still physically affectionate (not just ML, but hugs, holding, etc.), it's almost harder than the cold distance of being separate physically because it's so confusing. Sorry, didn't mean to get back on my sitch.
Trying - you are doing great here. Keep it up and hang in there. Keep your focus on you and your kids. They really need you to be the sane one right now.
InLimbo
Me 39 H 38 T22/M15 S11 S7 EA Confirmed 3/11/09 Sep Weekdays Only 4/09
