I get the "too much time on your hands" problem. It's exactly what I do. So, now, I do everything and anything to stay busy. I took up new hobbies and do things I wouldn't have done before. You just gotta get creative.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him