I'm thinking about your last response here to me. I don't like to project, still, as I've said before, I feel like I really get the dynamic.
I'm trying to put myself in her shoes (if instead of leaving, H stayed and started DBing)...I might have been pissed for a while, confused, apprehensive, maybe feel like I was the crazy one...I want to think about what sort of creates a bridge there without you having to hit her over the head with it. In my case, I guess H was GAL but it was just creating more distance between us and I felt more protective and defensive...balance was what I was seeking, I think. Anyway, enough about me. I think you are doing very well. When you get to the point where you can have a sense of humor and relax, that's great. I see time as the main ingredient here. Let's see.
