Hey VOR!!! I just now realized you had started a thread.
It does sound more like Kim is having separation anxiety, than just being totally batchittcrazy. If she won't give in on this then you're just going to have to deny her the next time she asks for any flexibility at all. Make her stick to the 'letter' of the D agreement.
I'm going to think some more on this and will reply more on this later. My brain is a little frazzled right now.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!