Do some research and be absolutely certain on how far you plan to go with this. Once the ball gets in motion and she has her own attorney doing the dirty work for her, it gets real ugly from there.
I thought my XW would have some common sense and realize the kids being with her would not be the best situation for anyone, emotionaly, financialy, educationaly, the whole ball of wax. But no, instead it was one lie after the other to paint me as the bad guy where the kids were concerned until I saw no point to continue on. Think the judge gave two hershey squirts about OM sitting right next to her in the court room? No, all he cared about was the best for the kids.
And now, I live the consequence of that. And all the while enduring 11 long hard months just waiting for her to wake up, which never happened.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11