dday: Man, sorry to hear about your sitch, but that is precisely where I don't want to be either. I had visions of sleeping in my car eating ramen noodles heated on the engine every day, while the XW was running around in her new bikini all summer on my dime...

No one has actually filed for the D yet, she wanted to go to Mediation, then file from an agreement made through that.

Ironic that to keep myself together, I may have to go to the L and file myself, that may be the only way to keep things in my favor. Maybe that would be a wake up call to her as well, that she doesn't get to call all the shots..

I feel I am almost at the point where I need to make that call..

PS: Thanks all for your thoughts on my Sitch..


M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."