I replied on your thread, and to be honest with you, I'd thought about posting to you previously, as I HAVE followed your sitch a LITTLE, just based on your Title (I'm loathe to cake-eaters, ). But the MLC forum is a rough crowd, who generally doesn't believe in exposure and who thinks you have to "let these things play out," often for YEARS.
Personally, I could never do that, nor could I advocate someone ELSE trying to do it. It's emotionally crushing.
Anyway, I'll take my lumps based on what I posted to you there -- I'm a big boy -- but I just wanted to give you that background. Those who have been thru the wringer of adultery (as I have), and who post on the Infidelity forum, are much more accepting of exposure as a valid DBing technique.
). But the MLC forum is a rough crowd, who generally doesn't believe in exposure and who thinks you have to "let these things play out," often for YEARS.
