ok, let me ask this, who filed for D? I would imagine it wasn't you right?

If need be, I will dig back in my notes of everything I went through, and as a father protecting his rights. There is a checklist of things to do and it sounds as if your L is playing off that list. I didn't follow that list swiftly enough because I felt the same as you, family, no way ocul dthis be happening because of family.


Guess what? No where that got me? A childless out of order ATM machine making autmatic payments as required and IOU's for the rest. All the while kringing every time the phone rings as it's a bill collector for bills XW ran up in my name (minaly for her birth control to be with OM "safetly") and one turn from being homeless, with a little over a week til payday and deciding between gas or groceries.

I know it's a hard choice to make, but you need to protect your ass and that's the bottom line. If what you say she says at mediation is true, then you have nothing to protect by staying. If anything, you manning up and leaving the house may just be a slap in the face to wake up and rethink her actions.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11