should you ever tell your W you are detaching from her and moving on?
i love her. but this is tearing me apart. sunday and monday seemed so positive. then yesterday and today nothing. i feel like i need to detach because i realize now how much i was depending on contact from her to still have a good day.
so my question really is, should i send her the letter i wrote telling her i'm letting her go? or do i just "act as if" i sent it to her and let things roll on? it helped me tremendously to write all of my feelings down. could this be sort of a LRT for me?
help... i'm confused about what to do with her, but like i said i do feel a little better having let my feelings out. and yes i know i know i can only control what i do, i never believed i could control her in anyway
