I have been dark and I really went dark this time I showed no interest what so ever, I even told her I don't want to see her at all! also I will be with someone else now and gave her back the engagment ring she bought me....
A little over two weeks now and I get an e-mail this morning it reads....
Good morning.
I wanted to apologize for the other day. I changed the locks because you scare me sometimes and I took your emails as threatening. Maybe I misunderstood.
Anyway, I know you’re in a very bad position and I don’t want to hurt you. It makes me very sad when you hurt and I don’t want to add to that pain. You are
Welcome to see the dogs anytime and the kids also, as you already know. I don’t want to fight anymore…
Now I also had a friend of hers that we both know contact me out of the blue yesterday... I thought this was wierd because he was asking about what I am up to... Well I said I am involved with another woman. After she make me leave. Then this morning got the e-mail, coincident I think not... Now my saying another woman well I really don't but have not closed my mind to other woman and if things continue like this I will be with someone else! That is a fact... Amazing how nice she was for the first time in over 7 months does this seem a little warm to anyone? If she was to stay warm for a while I might try something new...
Input anyone...
BTW the e-mail she reffered to was after my SS called me and asked for help with her, so I did contact her and said if you can't be there I will! for that she changed the locks.... i kept my cool and have always loved my family in the face of many trials inside and out, SHE sould know this by now. I guess the thought that I won't be there this time and i may not be again! That must have scared her more....
Me 40 waw 39 Never formally M Common law SD 16 SS 13 Together 9 yrs bomb 10/2/08 She started dating 11/08 Started P/A 01/09 Contiunes to call R over