New devolpment,

I have been dark and I really went dark this time I showed no interest what so ever, I even told her I don't want to see her at all! also I will be with someone else now and gave her back the engagment ring she bought me....

A little over two weeks now and I get an e-mail this morning it reads....



Good morning.

I wanted to apologize for the other day. I changed the locks because you scare me sometimes and I took your emails as threatening. Maybe I misunderstood.

Anyway, I know you’re in a very bad position and I don’t want to hurt you. It makes me very sad when you hurt and I don’t want to add to that pain. You are

Welcome to see the dogs anytime and the kids also, as you already know. I don’t want to fight anymore…


Now I also had a friend of hers that we both know contact me out of the blue yesterday... I thought this was wierd because he was asking about what I am up to... Well I said I am involved with another woman. After she make me leave. Then this morning got the e-mail, coincident I think not... Now my saying another woman well I really don't but have not closed my mind to other woman and if things continue like this I will be with someone else! That is a fact...
Amazing how nice she was for the first time in over 7 months does this seem a little warm to anyone? If she was to stay warm for a while I might try something new...

Input anyone...

BTW the e-mail she reffered to was after my SS called me and asked for help with her, so I did contact her and said if you can't be there I will! for that she changed the locks.... i kept my cool and have always loved my family in the face of many trials inside and out, SHE sould know this by now. I guess the thought that I won't be there this time and i may not be again! That must have scared her more....


Me 40
waw 39
Never formally M
Common law
SD 16
SS 13
Together 9 yrs
bomb 10/2/08
She started dating 11/08
Started P/A 01/09
Contiunes to call R over