I've been avoiding posting because I didn't like to hear what Sam and Mike were in agreement about (re: changes now possibly being forced on H, and coming across as pushy... you need to just let things be...)
However, I've thought about it, and I happen to agree.
Let's just let this man lead for awhile.
We are on the cusp of some major decision making. I'll let him take the reigns, and just offer input and/or follow-up action upon request.
(I'LL HAVE TO SIT ON MY HANDS, PUT DUCT TAPE OVER MY MOUTH, AND BLIND MYSELF, but I'll do it.)
I trust you guys. After all, you're guys, and you've stuck with me in learning more about the situation, etc... So, I'll heed your advice.
Updates to come!
(As I was typing this, H called to tell me when he'd be home tonight. He asked what I had planned for dinner. AND, MB said, "I'm open to suggestions. What would YOU like?"? Usually I just handle it, and he eats anything so it's all fine.)
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Glad I found your new thread! I hadn't noticed that it had locked.
Also glad to hear you have given things some thought and decided what to take from what we post. YOU are the one that knows your sitch best and can make the decision on what to take and what to leave on this board. All I can do is comment and give my opinion on what you tell me/us.
I knew there was a reason I continued to stick around and post to your sorry butt..
it's all about the thread titles
see thread titles tell me a lot about people who post here..some are sad..some are pitiful..some tell exactly where you are at that moment in time...some are comical..some are ironic..I found yours fun...it tells where you are and I bet you smiled when you came up with it...
it's a good title but you'll never beat this one..it's a classic If I Was A Porno Star My Name Would Be so read that...you'll see that when some of us were at lowest we kept our sense of humor and had fun..
there will be many things you won't like to hear..take what you want..leave the rest...you don't like what someone says then you tell em..
Mindblank - I'm doing the wave for you honey. That is fantastic.
And the porno thread was not the funniest - although it was fun. The funniest was any thread where BOB got into the discussion. Incidentally, I haven't seen too many people starting their thread with any adult beverages in a long time. What gives?
Make mine a Sangria and Sprite with Strawberries!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Usually I just handle it, and he eats anything so it's all fine.)
