My D18's dad and I divorced when she was two. We did fine with visitation "stuff" until I got remarried (when she was four), and he suddenly became hard to deal with.
FOR YEARS, we had issues because he was NOT flexible, not even by five minutes. Eventually I/we just stopped attempting to be flexible, and lived by the agreement, for the agreement, etc... It's a pretty sh*tty way to live, let me tell you.
The result is, D18 hasn't seen her dad since she was 15. Once she got old enough, she realized what the motivation was behind their "time," and it wasn't her best interests.
Just some food for thought.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
