Thanks everyone for the input, I actually have already been through a divorce once before this...this is my 2nd M, so I know what to expect. I also know that I feel pretty strongly about not getting married again! Lol

I know there will be hard days, but there are things my H has done and I see him in a totally different light. I don't have kids with him so I never have to see him again and that makes it easier. I have felt really good and strong going on 3 weeks or so, I hope it keeps up!