I'm getting there, PMA. Up till now, I have tried to treat this like she was sick. I figured if there was something wrong with her psychologically, I would have to stand by her and support her until she gets well. Then, hopefully we would be able to work on our marriage, and fix that. It was only yesterday that I found the text messaging was so high. I still think she has issues she needs to clear up. However, with this new information, I have to change my thinking. I am going to confront her on the texts and find out exactly what she wants right now, and deal with it from there. I still don't believe there is anything physical going on, but there certainly is something happening. At this point, if she really is developing something with this guy, then I would definately think she had to move out for a while. However, I have to think of my kids, so right now, I am not sure exactly what I am going to do, but I will do something.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
