During the time that she was "trying" to get her feelings back, what did you do differently to encourage that?

The work has to come from you. The reason being that she had already put it in her mind to leave. If you read the WASs posts, you'll see that it's a process that takes a LONG time and not just a couple of months. It takes at least a year of honest work from both partners to get that groove going again.

Your W hasn't said she wanted a D which is a big plus. If she's there for the kids, great! Step up and do things differently to get her attraction back for you.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER