Fire's burning out...just smoldering

[blindsided1]

So, I'm reading and I come across a passage that fits my H to a "T":

"it is the nature of narcissistic entitlement to see the situation from only one very subjective point of view that says, 'My feelings and needs are all that matter, and whatever I want, I should get.' Mutuality and reciprocity are entirely alien concepts, because others exist only to agree, obey, flatter, and comfort-in short, to anticipate and meet MY every need. If you cannot make yourself useful in meeting MY need, you are of NO VALUE AND WILL MOST LIKELY BE TREATED ACCORDINGLY, and if you defy MY will, prepare to feel MY wrath."

Wow. That is SOOOOOO him.