Alex, not a lot of our mutual friends know, but those who do have told W she is making a mistake by walking out. She continues to talk to them, but she has made it clear she will NOT discuss our M with any of them.
I do not know for sure who she is talking to about our M, but I have a pretty good idea who it is. She only seems to be listening to those who validate her decision. After learning through DB'ing, I completely understand why and what W is doing. Don't agree with it, but I understand.