I had a setback with with my separated wife over the weekend and she told me it is over. Should I really belive her? I tried to leave her alone but when I found she was talking to a male friend who is supporting her I went off the deep end. Could she be starting up a new relationship already with the person she has been talking to?
My wife even got a new cell number so I would not call her. The reason she did this is because I was monitoring her cell phone calls. And of course I found out that she was talking to a male friend. She tells me there is nothing going on between them but it seems hard to believe when they talk thru the night. Am I jumping to conclusions or could they be starting a relationship?
I think you need to go back and re-read what Bagheera posted on this thread. You have to be able to give, in detail, how your marriage go to this point, for anyone to give you any insight into your situation.
He is VERY knowledgable in this and he has given you very good advice.
Told my wife that I could not be there for my daughter right now because I am depressed and need to take of myself first. I do not want my daughter seeing me sad all the time. I told her I intended to be there for her in the distant future. My wife wants to do the every other weekend thing. Did I tell her the wrong right thing? I believe she is going to get a court order to enforce this. Please help.
I stood up and fought for 50/50 custody. The decisions you make now will affect your entire relationship with your child. I believe it is important for kids to have frequent and equal time with BOTH parents.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
I have found out that there is someone else now. What do I do now? I know I need to move on with my life but it seems she is holding me by the end of a string. She won't admit it but I have phone records to prove. Please help.
You have not done what everyone has asked you to do. Tell us your full marriage story. Otherwise, nobody can help you.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
