I know how you feel and I am so sorry...When hubby left for the 10 days it made me sick to my stomach knowing he went to see her and they were "playing house" together...24/7...Made me want to rip his head off his neck.
Then he came home and yes I snooped and found pics of the 2 of them as well as a hotel key and a book apparently for our youngest child about dealing with the trials of life etc...(The book is still in the car along with his suitcase and the pictures of him and his fat troll)
The only satisfaction I received from my snooping was he looked miserable in the pictures...His smile never met his eyes...It looked forced which made me feel better...
After that I was done snooping...Just brings on to much hurt and I damn sure don't need anymore of that!
As hard as it will be, don't contact him...Try to stay very busy then you won't think of him either...At this point I wouldn't contact my hubby even in an emergency...If you can GAL there even for a short time, it will be very helpful to you and your sanity!
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
