Awesome news on the jewelry! Nice little bit of change for yourself. I hope you'll buy yourself something nice w/it or save up for something bigger you've always wanted.
H does sound like his walls are crashing down around him and as Jeff noted, I too think it is a good thing. He's having to face reality which includes the reality of you as well.
Keep doing your things for you and he'll either work hard to catch up or fall further behind. Either way, you'll be moving in the right direction.
