How'd it work for us? Most of you have read my sitch already this already but this is how it worked for us:

1. Kids were aware of changes. We showed them my house, their room, nearby park, and let them get used to idea. "It's your place too." W has work to do to get kids settled and Smiley has work to let them "fill the space". Let them paint a room, set up a skateboard ramp in the living room or whatever.

2. Kids were away for moving day - in our case for a few weeks. They didn't need to see furniture moving. It would have only added more drama. It gave W and I time to connect and sort out (both items and feelings).

3. Take some occasional down time or rest throughout the day. It's surprising how emotional things can feel when you're packing up stuff. Take a break when you need it.

4. Bring some friends over. Friends want to help and they will provide you support.

5. Be nice. She's suffering too. This is your chance to leave on a good note. What you do here will be remembered forever.

6. DB your butt off! Keep it upbeat.

7. Spend some friendly alone time with her. Pour a glass kick your feet up.

8. Tell her the "Door is always open".

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Buying the kids a puppy? Just make sure you know what you're getting into. Pets shouldn't be an impulse purchase. I already had an eccentric older dog.

Last edited by orangedog; 06/24/09 06:15 PM.
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