hubby is an intrervert sort of person and finds it hard to show his feelings. He is the sort of person to blame himself if something isnt going right and he finds it difficult to put things right. He is very prone to burying his head in the sand and is stuborn, like me, and is easyly hurt. When we didnt talk for the 2 weeks before we split up he did say he couldnt see where the problem was as he thought everything was ok. When we split he told me he still loved me but as things became worse between us he stopped saying it. One day i pushed him to answer no he didnt love me as i was hurting and felt if he said it i would be able to move on. Perhaps i have done and said too much and his love for me has died. I am sure there is not an o/w. The boys are coping well but they have a lot of contact with their dad. Hubby will be havin lots of different feelings because he has walked away and he may even be thinking he cant put things right so thinks its easier to leave it as it is. Hope this makes sense. I will keep posting.
been to see my counsellor today and went into some depth about why i want to save my m. Even though she cant say what will happen in the future she understands why i have hope but says my job wont be easy due to my h lack of talking about the sitch. I am going to carry on giving him space and put the idea of us getting back together to one side and concentrate on me, even though it will be hard.
