I'm in a similar predicament right now with my Xw over next weekend and the 4th of July playing into it as A) I have my boys for that weekend and B) I have them for the 4th year irregardless. Yet XW thinks she still gets her two cents in where they spend and how they spend the holiday. So, I'm playing this sort of game in return with her that perhaps your XW may do as mine and slowly realize it is pointless to argue it out amd see the err of her ways?
I feel ya..
I could have been a real ass and had caleigh for almost the whole moth of July..the papers say i get 2 weeks summer visitation...6 days/5 nights. My regualr visitation is Wednesday-Sunday one week, then skip a week, then thursday-Sunday......but I chose not to do that...but by the papers i could have done it and got by with it..