Hi Sandi (and others who are reading):

In an earlier post, you mentioned that my W craves ego food. Based on what you know about by situation, can you suggest ego food that I can provide without appearing like I'm pursuing or I'm needy? Currently, I compliment her on how good she looks as she's going to work (once a week)...I compliment her on being a great mother (several times a week when the timing is right)...I thank her for the little things (at least the things I notice) etc.

Thanks,
LFH


ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009