Sent an email to W this morning asking to meet next week to discuss the D...Thought it would be a good time since the kids will be with in laws. Haven't heard back yet but no big surprise she doesn't check her mail that often. This will be the first time we've sat down in person to discuss D every other time it's been impromptu over the phone and turns into a big fight.
I hate doing this but it feels like I FINALLY have some control I'm not just sitting around waiting and wondering what's going to happen...
I did catch myself thinking,a little maybe this will turn her around, make her think a little harder, with me wanting to initiate the talk and moving forward...
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."