if the MC is any good, then he'll deal with each of you separately for a while and work on your issues as well as meeting together and see what have been the problems and get to the root of them in an effort to heal the M.
What your H is suggesting is just not what a good C does (his description is eerily similar to the last MC we saw who was just a new age jerk who thought "no emotion is wrong". PErhaps your H is in a MLC and trying to find where he is in life and what should he be doing, do check the MLC resources. MLCers find themselves questioning everything and wondering if perhaps the last years of their lives were a lie and wondering about "where should them be heading" instead.
Remember to use "I feel" instead of "you should" sentences. The MC will ask each of you what you want out of C and you'll go from there, go ahead and speak your peace without begging nor pleading. I pray pray you get a good C (lol about the unicorns!! I too had my crazy C encounter!)
Do see a C on your own or join a woman's group, my county offered a great program headed by a prof. counselor. Good luck!
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
